One day I happened to be in his classroom and he stepped out briefly. Tried to go in and update the payment which didn't work.
Just an anecdote, but one of my college recommendation letters actually DID refer to me by the wrong name (I saw a copy after it was sent in). The brain autocorrects, but the mouth does not. Ripoff Report Needs Your Help!
Somebody asked the identity of the employee for reasons of mirth and cruelty, I expect, not because it was pertinent. Thats where I derive my value, and from the sound of your letter, you can definitely do the same. Your experience and performance are what is really worth it, and at least some of the jerks guffawing at you in the breakroom, unless they are all engineers or something, may have college degrees, but probably dont all have ones even related to their field, based on statistics out there. Most MLMs have a starter-package where you buy into the business and get an initial set of whatever it is youre selling, and then you have to keep buying the products so you can keep the product line up to date (so, if the company switches from Fall Product to Winter Product, you have to buy a bunch of Winter Product even if your garage is still full of Fall Product, etc.) Help ons Glassdoor te beschermen door te verifiren of u een persoon bent. View jobs Cydcor Employee Reviews Review this company Job Title All Location United States 107 reviews Ratings by category 2.8 Work-Life Balance 2.9 Pay & Benefits 3.2 Job Security & Advancement 3.5 Management 3.9 Culture Sort by Helpfulness Rating Date Language Email this Report . This is great advice.
Its not sounding a lot different to that Ponzi scheme I mentioned in how they treat their staff.
Might be something that helps the OP. I dropped out of college after my sophomore year, and maybe Ive just been lucky, but not having a degree hasnt hurt me so far in my career. OP1, you need to get out as soon as you can. I am a high school counselor. I would like to see the evidence for this claim.
I sold office supplies door to door on a commission only basis. (UK back into lockdown and Ive had panic attacks most of the day). Just a second set of eyes.
I hope I can encourage you to take several different actions at the same time, to help yourself rope this in. So he said we could put the other devices in my husbands name and then reorder. The parenthetical explanation draws too much attention to the pronouns and could feel othering or even risk outing Susan. OP2 Im curious about how senior management (ie, the audience) is able to call you out on the mistakes if this is the first time theyre seeing the presentation? Roesleins point is that the OP should stop being embarrassed and just own it. If you had to put their name on your resume, Id tell you to get out today if you could do it without plunging yourself into crisis (i.e., if you have a safety net with your family). My point was to encourage OP to look into it. This sounds like a similar complaint. So the LW should ask the student which name/s and pronoun/s theyre using in their own materials, and then use the same in the recommendation letter. Do not work for this company. Shadow_Heart_ 3 yr. ago Thank you. If it makes you feel better, I read that as blight them in the you know what and really liked the turn of phrase :). But it is retail hours. Then deal with the rest. But *Amaranth* was not talking about the gossip, but about the possibility that someone might notice that something is (apparently) out of whack with the salary ranges. My recommendation letter was sitting on his desk and of course I took a peekenough to see my name and just a few sentences. Me, I considered going back but like I said, the degree wouldnt have backed up my career (and would have been expensive).
I came to say this, too. No ring on her finger, she was physically attractive, and their chemistry was just yuck. It is about there student s convenience, not the recommender.
Im far more impressed than I would be by a degree. Every time you make a particular error, add it to the checklist to double check words misspelled, format issues, fact checking, etc. We were in the same PR undergrad program and he confessed to me that he felt his MLM experience pushed him out of PR and into sales since he never had any relevant PR experience that prospective employers were looking for. If this question were about an adult and a non-school setting, I would say it feels kind of disrespectful to check in if someone tells me in a professional setting that their pronouns are XYZ, I assume that is because they want me to use those pronouns in professional settings and that they would generally let me know if there were situational nuances they wanted me to be aware of. Answer: they sell anything and everything.
But now you have an AAM community to cheer you on go for it! Weird vibes from the guy as if they dressed a meth dealer in nice clothes and gave him a back story to regurgitate. LW #2 A technique that people with language LDs use to proofread for spelling/typos is scanning the text backwards. I agree that you got a pile on when you were trying to be kind and encouraging. Our HR manager is very immature and has done several things that I question (mostly sharing private information) but I tend to just mind my own business. He never went to college. Also, if the student specifically said he/they pronouns, specifying which they want in this case is not asking them to go by a non-preferred pronoun, just if they have a more specific preference for this context. I borrowed money for rent and eventually had to move back in with family and find two part time jobs as a barista/waitress to make ends almost meet.
But maybe you dont have all the context you need to do your job. But Im cis, so *shrug* if anyone else knows differently please tell us? In light of this, the easiest solution for the letter may be to use they since it wont appear to be in conflict with the typically-female first name the way he would be. I appreciate it. And formal titles wouldnt be a thing. Its hard not to feel sensitive about lacking something that the society at large has set as such a huge denominator of a persons value to the working world. From experience, LinkedIn works in mysterious ways. Hiring needs to change as well as higher education.
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Its possible she had some legitimate use for compiling that data but it sounds like she was sharing it a gossipy way, which (a) isnt okay and (b) undermines the trust people need to have in HR to handle information sensitively. Elaborations below, this sort of stuff isn't for the faint of heart, First of all, some background on the company: http://ethanvanderbuilt.com/2015/02/27/cydcor-ds-max-scam-opinion/.
Not all mistakes are careless. Congratulations on getting out. And um Americans can sometimes be a bit too optimistic about their countrys legal system. If you cant find a work buddy to trade proofreading with (you read theirs/they read yours), then make sure as much as humanly possible to give yourself at least half of day to complete the presentation and then put it away and work on something else. I was on the phone and chat with AT&T literally all day long with no help what so ever. To the surprise of no one in the world except the board, they did not share the boards belief that the honor of working there was more valuable than a pay raise. It took several days and had to talk to several people before they were activated. OP, this is something to raise to your boss or higher up HR people. Opened the iPhone and activated it and something is defiantly wrong with the speaker. Any suggestions on how to fix this? OP #2 If youre primarily working with numerical errors, I might have some ideas for you in terms of how to spot errors and prioritize the errors to make the most time checking for.
I do a lot of highly detailed work myself that will be reviewed and scrutinized by top management. taking a break of at least 20-30 min to do something else before reviewing. It was my fault somehow every time. But if I replied to politely decline every contact, I wouldnt have time for anything else. Im out with friends but not at work (if someone asked me directly I wouldnt lie, but Im not planning to come out), I want my references to use my AGAB pronouns. Not much help from the original guy that sold us the devices. Please update us as you go along. Im not interested in leaving my employer as I have a pretty sweet deal, but I wonder if Im doing the right thing by not responding. I am willing to bet that if it hadnt been about this, it would have been about some other difference. Academia is more than happy to promote degrees as evidence of the probability that an individual can learn and demonstrate that learning. For the sake of transparency: I would for sure delete comments promoting specific MLMs here (because I dont want anyone hijacking my site to promote a specific business; that would seem pretty spam-ish to me), but not comments just defending that business model in general. You can also use text-to-speech and listen with headphones. Paid taxes and then got an email saying to update payment information which again I couldn't. Run away.
If youre sort of a trusted personal mentor figure who they came out to early because they feel comfortable with you, yeah, Id check in.
should I be worried by how pushy an employer was with a job offer over a holiday weekend? But to start disparaging education and educated people as a result both takes it too far and misses the point. Again, we appreciate you sharing your experience so that we can improve in the future.
I ignored the email, but got a follow-up one from her today.
Quick update: I actually gave my notice within hours of sending in this question. (Innocent question Im not a native speaker). Some people do an ROI on a degree and decide it doesnt make sense for them higher education has gotten extremely expensive, which is a real, practical concern that goes beyond lack off encouragement, insecurity naysayers, etc. Couldn't activate the two devices that we did have. Sie weiterhin diese Meldung erhalten, informieren Sie uns darber bitte per E-Mail Brains are not good at seeing what you *actually* wrote instead of what you think you wrote. As Alison said, there is no shame in taking a retail job, and I promise you, no future employer will look down on you for doing honest work to make ends meet during a time when everyone is struggling. More importantly, OP if it bothers you, please look into going back to school. OP 2, I used to work in a job that involved a lot of writing and it was commonly suggested to read what youve written backwards, ie word by word from end to start. I use this method. I had such a viscerally negative reaction, I got up and left in the middle of the interview literally while the guy was talking! Sometimes, when people find out, they make surprised faces. I also have to check documents for accuracy and I become blind to them. consider whether it is a matter of temperament.
per informarci del problema. I considered replying to tell him about his embarrassing mistake, but its not my job to fix him and he would probably take any response as a sign to keep bothering me. #4 actually no please dont ever deadname someone this way! Thats the business model. It was just an all-around bad situationdont let this be you.
I fix so much wording as a result and I catch typos! Some workers have less formal education than others and there is no need to share that with their peers doing the same job.
Im not the one who earns more. Its five answers to five questions.
Cydcor- a pyramid selling scheme with franchises across the country to hide its identity. At this point, finishing his degree probably wouldnt help him at all. Ripoff Report on: Fiducia Marketing - Fiducia marketing cydcor direct energy att uverse cara pizzurroo dustin woods troy scam door to pyramid scheme michigan. I now have a job at a legal firm, and funnily enough, the interview I did for the scam job was way harder than the one I did for the law firm. Ive never checked in like this with a cis-presumed person whose pronouns I already know, and it doesnt feel great to do so just because someone is trans. This sounds awfully familiar to certain species color blind recruitment strategies whose principle goal is not reducing bias to produce better outcomes for an employer but preventing any agency, outside or in, from collecting demographic data on applicants and employees that might reveal how piss poor or unmotivated they are at finding, keeping, and advancing talented people of color. Using they pronouns in a recommendation letter without confusing people While OP looks for new work, I wonder if it would it make sense to acknowledge upfront with potential employers all the issues with the company. I mean, who knows if things might change in the future? At the one recruitment seminar thing I went to, once it was clear that they expected people to sell to their personal networks, I knew i could never make money (I wasnt living near my extended family, which was their main example, and all my friends were broke students and new grades like me) so I told the guy no thank, and he tried to bully me with stuff like Youll regret it with You just need to ~believe in yourself~ more peppered in. Laptop voice: In one-thousand-three-hundred-and-forty-eight- Meanwhile, hold your head high. #5. Props to you for suffering with Cydcor for so long.
Giving clients your personal details to contact?! It sucks when an executive leader calls it out, I just want to die.
Speaking as a college professor, there are few of us who are unfamiliar with non-binary individuals. And Im glad it did because it boosted my confidence immeasurably. I graduated from high school in 2009 and I got a ton of mail from Cutco and Vector and similar companies offering me jobs. They promise people to be their own boss and make 6 figures in a year but the only people making 6 figures are the few at the top of the scheme (a handful of folks); everyone is working their butts off probably for less than min wage, no benefits, etc.
